bengt-erik norum

long time no post. by way of explanation: http://yarnhog.com/archives/2005/02/divorce_sucks_l.html.

aside from the logistics, i've been digging into work really heavily, trying to keep my mind occupied, i guess.

while posting would probably be somewhat cathartic, i've been hesitant to 'open up'. too many reasons that people read blogs and this blog hasn't been focused enough to know whether its the technical stuff or the personal stuff that keeps the (from some crude log analysis) 14 people with rss aggregators pointed here reading mine.

this postcard is stuck to my (yes, my, we've worked that much out) fridge. it has greeted me every morning for a couple weeks, as i get breakfast for the kids. three comments about it:

• lupine (person who sent the card to my soon-to-be-ex-wife), i'm sorry i never got to know you
• i have a thing for the aesthetic feel of these 'retro' images
• i wonder if i find it funny, in part, because it's at my expense. would it be funny if we weren't getting a divorce?

why are us wasps so damn defensive? make fun of me; i know i haven't solved all of my prejudices when i can't respond.

there are a bunch of fridge magnets that can serve the same purpose for you on annetaintor.com.